It is not what you do, it’s how you do it. I can give you the best “trick” in the world and if you don't do it right it will not work. What makes it work is the belief system that you have. Are you doing it out of desperation or simply because you love and enjoy everything about her, everything that makes her a woman? Gifts and gestures only land well when they feel sincere, not transactional.

Flowers are a perfect example. If you give her flowers because you want something in return, it will not get you anywhere. She will know that you are giving her flowers not simply because you want to give it to her but because you want to get in her panties. Don't get me wrong, she will take them and she might even enjoy them, but all you did was feed her ego. You even mess it up for the next guy because now she starts believing that all guys are like that.

The worst of all is that she will sense where you are coming from right away. For her, it is all emotional; many women cannot put their finger on it and tell you why they like something or why they don't like it. If you ask a woman why she likes him, she will just have this dreamy look in her eyes and tell you, “because he is cute.” But if you simply give her a flower to celebrate her beauty as a woman, that lands very differently.

You know women love to test you to see if you are for real or not. Sometime after you do something nice for her, she might be not exactly nice to you just to see your reaction. If you come back with, “but I just did this and that for you,” then you are in big trouble. If you ignore her test and stay cool, you get a point in her book. She thinks, okay, he is man enough to handle me, and he likes me for who I am. So no matter what “trick” you use, think about how you are using it